we all know that there are reasons behind every life event. birthdays, death, career changes, relationships etc.
what we don’t accept is the element of surprise that come with it. almost every surprise gave me a tiny shock. I bet am not alone.
and what we lack of are:
– the proper response
– the open-heartness to accept things the way they are.
we need the two above by default in order to move forward.
it takes lifetime to master it and probably longer to be embedded in civilized society.
I am writing this as a self-reminder of who, what & how I was, are and want to be.
thanks to ‘Surprise You’re Dead!’ in 1989 released album The Real Thing by Faith No More, 3 Season and 9 episodes of Game of Thrones and a bit too much on self-confidence lately.